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  • The evolution of the working man

    I’ve been thinking a lot about work lately.

    Not the nebulous “what I do all day” kind of work, but rather a reflection on how my relationship with my daily tasks is an indicator of my personal and professional life.

    Questions like this come to mind:

      • Do I treat my work time as sacred?
      • What’s stopping me from doing more?
      • Do I start each day with a to-do list?
      • Do I actively prevent and mitigate distractions?
      • Do I force others to treat my work time as sacred?
      • Do I always know what comes next after completing a task?
      • Does the list of things that’s stopping me from doing more get smaller every day?
      • Do I only work when I feel like working, or have I grown past letting my emotion influence my productivity?
      • Do I recover from distractions when I’m knocked off-task, or does it take me hours (if not all day) to get back on task?

    Reflection

    When I think back to the days when I had first left my job, I remember floundering in my free time. I had gotten by my entire life by being smart and charming, but not by hard work. All of my “accomplishments” were a result of my doing just enough, or being liked by the right people. I had terrible work habits, honed in the belly of the beast.

    I used to sit down at the computer and spend most of my days brainlessly refreshing feeds and news sources until my brain turned to mush. I never carved out the time to be still, hone my craft, and learn the art of business. This free-wheeling nothingness was a result of 1) me not having a boss anymore and 2) never developing a habit of self-managing.

    Amateurs and professionals

    When I look at the habits of people who get things done, it’s obvious that work being taken seriously is at the center of their achievements.

    On one end of the spectrum is the amateur who works in the shadows on nothing in particular, as needed. The amateur isn’t building anything intentionally or working with a sense of purpose or determination, so their work reflects this. As my mentor would say, they don’t know how to work.

    On the other end of the spectrum is the professional who realizes (and has long since sold out to the idea) that work is not a choice. Work is a part of our life that must be practiced just like any other habit. It’s not influenced by how they feel, what other responsibilities they’ve taken on, or how nice the weather is.

    Professionals do what’s needed, every day, period.

    Bridging the gap

    One doesn’t go from sitting on the couch watching TV for eight hours a day to playing back to back pickup games at the local basketball court overnight. By the same token, the amateur doesn’t become a professional overnight by sitting down to do work all day. This isn’t to say that the mindset and habits of a professional can’t be immediately emulated, though.

    With tweets and texts alarms and chimes all around us, it’s easy to spend less than an hour being productive every day. Think about that! The legacy of what we’re working towards as artists and world-changers accomplished in sixty minutes a day.

    What’s interesting to note is how much gets done when we focus. We love a great just-in-the-knick-of time stories, and glamorize the last-minute sprint.

    It’s asinine.

    What reinforces this lazy work habit is how good it feels to accomplish something under pressure, and how we remind ourselves each time we do it that this is how it’s done. Yes, instead of making a habit of doing the work we’re proud of by focusing intensely and proactively on our tasks, we get off on the euphoria of almost being embarrassed. And thus the cycle continues.

    I’m trying to turn over a new leaf, and I hope that you’ll join me. Nothing is more important for my career and quality of life right now, and I appreciate those who set the example for me and those around me.

  • Dealing with reality

    There are two options, as I see it: you can either spend your time embracing reality or rejecting it.

    One path walks the line between a cynic and a realist, relentlessly rejecting the lies people tell (to themselves and others) about the way things are and the way things could be. The other path rejects what’s known on the quest to realize what’s possible.

    I don’t think either path is superior, although the latter is glamorized a bit in our society. What I endeavor to avoid is taking on characteristics of both that result in an unsavory character (think: deluded cynic).

  • Show off

    I’ll never forget playing basketball in middle school (in part because that’s one of the last times I played basketball…). We had a great team and a great coach, the only problem is that I wasn’t a starter.

    It pissed me off because I felt like I was a better player than the guy who had the starting spot for my position (sorry Chase). To vent my frustrations in practice when the coach wasn’t around, I would take great pleasure in working him — pure, unadulterated, immature showboating.

    It was great. Until game time, when I would sit my showboating jersey on the bench…

    One day in practice, the coach was walking us through a new play and we were simulating the reaction of the defense. When the defense (Chase) shifted, the coach paused to discuss possible options.

    Seeing what was obvious to anyone with even a little experience playing basketball, I explained that I would just back cut my defender and move towards the basket. The coach paused and regrouped after saying, “ok good, I didn’t know you would do that.”

    Really?

    There was my problem: the person who most needed to know my skills was oblivious to them, and I spent energy trying to embarrass my teammate when I could have been addressing the real problem, which was my skills not being on display.

    What an idiot.

    Now as for you: perhaps you have a superpower that your boss doesn’t know about, such as technical writing or business development. Maybe you have secretly taught yourself a new role and you feel like you could add value to your team by lending your new talents. I don’t know what it is, but I’m not the one who needs to know.

    This post is a friendly kick in the pants for you: speak up, stop being unnecessarily modest, and show us what you’ve got.

  • The day to day

    A lesson I’m currently learning is that my job is less about looking for the next mountain to scale, and more about making a habit of putting one foot in front of the other (in the right place), over and over and over…

    It’s so easy to get distracted.

  • Back here on earth

    When we think about honesty and courage and perseverance, we tend to picture the extremes: leaking a story about insider trading to the press, thwarting the attempts of a mugger to keep your girlfriend safe, and committing to mastering a skill by practicing for an hour every day, until the end of time.

    Back here on earth, there are practical applications of these traits that matter just as much: telling a friend that attending UF is not the right decision, standing up for someone being publicly humiliated, and finishing the day’s task before taking a nap.

  • On not giving up

    A recurring theme among people who have a lot more money and influence than I do is relentlessness. New Years Resolutions and changes made in a huff and diets don’t really work because they’re typically short-lived.

    A habit that becomes a lifestyle that becomes a part of who you are is what matters, not the flavor of the week. I’m talking to myself when I say: commit to it (insert your own “it”), full-assed, and never give up.

  • Building character and making progress (by choice)

    You’re faced with your own character and humanity when:

    1. your boss isn’t watching
    2. your kids are asleep
    3. there are no cops on the road
    4. no one is watching

    I’m particularly interested in the idea of personal growth in a vacuum.

    If no one is watching my work, will I do my best?

    Do I maximize my productivity when I’m not needed in a meeting at 3pm?

    Would I continue writing on this blog if no one read it?

    Would I be committed to self-improvement if all signs pointed to my current state being “good enough?”

  • Half-focused, all bad

    Recently, I’ve found myself developing an unproductive habit: working at half (or worse) speed throughout the day because of fatigue, instead of making the time for a proper rest, and returning to my work refreshed.

    This also means that when I’m taking a “break” I’m never really free to enjoy my time. In part because I feel like I haven’t earned a break based on my sub-par output, and in part because I’m not fully committed to the break.

    I guess my heart is in the right place, but bad habits serve no one and certainly don’t impress my CEO very much. The course-correction for me here is to rest when I’m resting, and work when I’m working.

  • Healing through the arts

    My friends Shelah and Shamilia are both using their art and passions to bring healing to communities in Haiti and Rwanda (respectively).

    Sustainable Theater Program, by Shelah Marie

    This August, I will be facilitating a month-long Sustainable Theater workshop for the youth served by T.E.N. Global‘s community center in rural San Rafael, Haiti. By the end of the workshop students will:

    • Understand the traditional playwriting structure
    • Learn how to compose and edit original material
    • Be able to transfer original writing into performance
    • Have a published original play script

    With this workshop, I hope to do three things:

    • Provide an alternative paradigm for education and learning
    • Validate the participants’ creative spirit
    • Incorporate the students’ published work into the body of contemporary theater

    Your donation will help bring this project to life and facilitate much-needed healing through art practices. I’ll be keeping very close track of everything I’m doing on my blog so you can see exactly how the work progresses.

    Visit Shelah’s IndieGogo Campaign Page →

    Theatre in Education for Reconciliation, by Shamilia McBean

    So you may or may not know, I’m working on a masters degree that lets me meld my passions for theatre, community and social change in the field of Applied Theatre.
    I’ve been learning so much and now I have the chance to actually -do- the work where it counts!

    Enter: Project Rwanda, an exchange between my Masters program and the Kigali Institute of Education (KIE). They’ve invited us to share Applied Theatre methods with Rwanda’s teachers in training to be used in classrooms across the country for post genocide reconciliation.

    Visit Shamilia’s IndieGogo Campaign Page →

    I couldn’t be any more biased in promoting these projects (I’m incredibly proud of my friends), but this is my blog so I can do it unapologetically.

    So if the projects resonate with you, please spread the world.

    And donate if you’re inclined. Thanks.

  • What’s cooking?

    If you wait until your product is complete to start promoting it, I’m afraid you’ve missed an incredible opportunity. Several of them, actually:

    1. Determining if people actually care about what you’re doing
    2. Finding out if the idea you’ve selected is your best one, based on feedback
    3. Building up an army of people interested in promoting and buying your product
    4. Seeing if your idea shows signs of being able to survive first contact with the marketplace

    I think it’s possible to both over-prepare (often a form of procrastination and succumbing to Resistance) and under-prepare, but obscurity is an enemy regardless.

    Tell us what’s in the oven unless your kitchen’s already crowded.

    Actually, tell us regardless.