They will tell you to go after your dreams and the work you were born to do. They’ll tell you that you’ll have to sacrifice and that you’ll need to relentlessly focus on the goal.
What they won’t tell you is that it will cost you everything.
They will tell you to go after your dreams and the work you were born to do. They’ll tell you that you’ll have to sacrifice and that you’ll need to relentlessly focus on the goal.
What they won’t tell you is that it will cost you everything.
A friend shared a new business idea yesterday.
It was essentially a logistics business specializing (at least at first) in…milk. What I liked about the idea—in addition to the fact that it seemed to be a worthwhile pursuit for the parties it will serve—is the fact that the business is not glamorous.
Sexy businesses are filled with distractions.
It’s easy to get sucked into the idea of a business or to envision ourselves as the owner of a business that does some interesting thing because of how it will position us socially.
You know what’s really sexy, though?
Profit.
Shad Khan (billionaire owner of the Jacksonville Jaguars) made his fortune in the auto parts industry. Craig Newmark (creator of Craigslist) built his business doing work so tedious that I would be reduced to tears taking over those responsibilities just for a day. Insurance sales are not exciting by any stretch of the imagination, but fortunes are being made.
What I like about unsexy businesses is that they force you to be honest and to work on the things that make sound business sense. I imagine it’s a bit challenging focusing on the fundamentals when your VC-backed startup opens beautiful new offices in Palo Alto and you spend your days deciding how to more efficiently burn through allocate money you didn’t earn investor dollars.
It’s tempting to justify our desires for the things we want (a new computer, the latest iPhone, a nicer car) with noble, business-related reasoning.
We surround ourselves with people who inspire us and to whom we feel accountable, so it’s natural to want to present our best selves.
I’ll be so much more productive with that phone!
The latest version of iOS ships with [some whiz-bang feature]!
It doesn’t even use gas!
Gimme a break 🙂
It’s ok to want things just because you want them.
“Because it’s cool and brings me joy” is a perfectly acceptable justification, and intellectual dishonesty (or worse still, lying to yourself) is never worth it.
Consider this your liberation and permission slip, redeemable at any time.
Fear is not real.
The only place that fear can exist is in our thoughts of the future.
It is a product of our imagination, causing us to fear things that do not at present and may not ever exist. That is near insanity Kitai.
Do not misunderstand me, danger is very real, but fear is a choice.
We are all telling ourselves a story and that day mine changed.
Cypher Raige, After Earth (2013)
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Hustling is the aggressive and sustained pursuit of a goal or end whose attainment would not be possible without a relentless focus on the desired outcome.
“The first and best victory is to conquer self. To be conquered by self is, of all things, the most shameful and vile.”
“One has to kill a few of one’s natural selves to let the rest grow — a very painful slaughter of innocents.”
I’ve never really been big on hero worship, though I was quite nervous the first time I met two of my heroes. Something my dad always said when I was growing up is that [other people] put their pants on one leg at a time just like [him].
It’s kind of funny to imagine Elon Musk fumbling with the buckle of a poorly engineered belt (smile).
Anyway, it’s important to recognize the difference between someone whose achievements represent a lifelong commitment to work that matters…and someone who just happens to have done a bunch of seemingly interesting things.
Have heroes. Have mentors. Recognize greatness. Emulate the habits of successful people.
But don’t lose yourself. You’re great, too.
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